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CHILD PSYCHOLOGY AND CULTURE

 

Don't Spoil Your Children in Childhood

It is the responsibility of the parents to make the children business-adept. Spoiled children grow up to fail. Guide children properly; also teach them to use time properly by giving those books, and toys. Tell the child that we will give you gifts for your good deeds.

In today's busy life, working parents especially cannot find time for their children. Due to the absence of a joint family system, the culture of the children sometimes deteriorates. Child psychiatrists are of the opinion that parents should definitely give some time to their children for the complete development of children.

Parents give children expensive things, clothes, toys, and even money to fulfill their desires without giving them time. In such a condition children deteriorate. Spoiled children grow up to be failures and frustrated adults. Such children can never be happy in life.

Symptoms of Child Malformation:

■A child cannot understand the difference between a need and a want.

■The child does his will.

■The child starts to protest in every case.

■ The child talks too much and nonsense.

■Child throws tantrums if not listened to.

■The child does not obey any rules.

■Child becomes stubborn and irritable.

Spoiled children fail in many life paths and goals in adulthood. Because:

■Can't decide right in life.

■They do not understand their responsibilities and duties.

■They have strange and inappropriate behavior.

■They accept defeat easily in difficult situations.

■They are unable to work with other people.

Solution: Make children good-natured and polite in childhood.

Set boundaries for children based on their age. Put restrictions on the facilities provided to them.

■Not every child's wish needs to be met. Give gifts only on special occasions.

■Ignore children's cries and pointless insistence. Love them after giving up. Don't remind them how they behaved before.

■Teach children the habit of saving early. Helping with household chores; also teach the elders to help.

■Give proper guidance to children. Teach them the proper use of time by giving them books, toys, etc. Also, teach to share toys and things with others.

■Teach him to wait until you finish the necessary task. Make children tolerant in this way.

■Do not compare the child with his or her siblings or other children. Don't be afraid to reject the wrong things.

■Most importantly, be a role model for your children. Treat them as you would expect them to.

■Spend maximum hours of the day with your child. Study closely the development of its properties. By closely observing the changes that occur as we age, we can help the positive changes in the child's personality.

Pay Attention to These Points:

■If a child asks for a toy in a shop or market, don't say give it now. Instead, say, I'll give it to you later.

■If the child does not study or does not pay attention to studies, do not say that if he does not study, he will be punished. Instead, say that you start studying. We will help you in time.

■Instead of saying that we won't talk to you if you do something wrong, say that you should be sorry for what you did. Try not to make this mistake again.

■Don't do this work, instead of saying, we will give you sweets, say, we will reward you for your good deeds.

■Raising children is a challenging but rewarding job. By following these tips, you can help your children grow into happy and well-adjusted adults.

Summary

It is important to remember that children are not small adults. They are still developing and learning about the world around them. It is important to provide them with guidance and support, but it is also important to allow them to make mistakes and learn from them. Spoiling your children in childhood can have negative consequences in the long run. It can make them entitled and demanding. It can also make them less resilient and less able to cope with challenges.